Today, I’m feeling the fumes coming out, so I’ll add onto the continuous idea of vagueness earlier in the thread. One thing that absolutely furious me more than people who vague tweets about someone is the downplaying aspect that comes after that. “Don’t worry, it’s deleted. Therefore, you shouldn’t be that mad”.
Sorry, that’s not how it works. You don’t get to talk shit about someone behind their backs and swiftly deleted it (after already spreading such accusations and false information about them to your followers/platform/audience) afterwards and act like things are fine. If you have a problem with the person, you talk to them one-to-one to dispel any stigma between two parties. It cannot be downplayed, especially when the shit in question is talking about something, they know it them, along with actual screenshots (blocking out names doesn’t mean dick here). Vagueness is clear in the definition, folks: lack of certainty or distinctness or lack of preciseness in thought or communication.
I cannot take something, cropped them out, as example shown below, and claimed it is vague (especially without context).
It is clear of who I am referring too. No amount of "well, I DIDN'T say any names..." doesn't cut it.
Furthermore, once the shit already hit the fan, you cannot dial it back up. I understand the notation of “words hurt”. No shit, but if the person is completely and utterly unaware that their words hurt another person… and you don’t let them know, how on earth are they supposed to know that? No one are mind readers and we’re in the realm of assumptions. Especially odd that the people who use these arguments, are often subjected to that same train of thought. Your words hurt, but they can spread, complain, cropped out images (with blocked out names, but it is obviously who you are referring too but taking their statements out of context) and spread throughout their personal accounts under the guise of “vagueness” to their friends in their words, and they don’t hurt. Even more strange is how they criticized anyone for spreading their tweets to others, despite literally doing the same thing they’re getting angry about under the idea of “well, this doesn’t involve them”, yet, spreading on social media (which some of those people that followed said accounts) isn’t much as involvement in the first place?
These things lead to distrust (and compromised friendship) because of this little charade due to lack of communication, but it wasn’t an absolute lost since I gained new ones with great support over it.
Had to get this out because it’s been bugging me for a while, but I feel a hell a lot better now I said what I really want to say lol. Hopefully, that’s the last time I have to talk about this… unless I get stuck into another similar situation. See you in social media in “Cancel ShineCero” folks :wagh:
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Also, it grind my fucking gears when I see artists having the gall to criticizes another artist’s skill level, but put it as “no offense”… fuck off with that shit, bro. :thonk:
Sorry, that’s not how it works. You don’t get to talk shit about someone behind their backs and swiftly deleted it (after already spreading such accusations and false information about them to your followers/platform/audience) afterwards and act like things are fine. If you have a problem with the person, you talk to them one-to-one to dispel any stigma between two parties. It cannot be downplayed, especially when the shit in question is talking about something, they know it them, along with actual screenshots (blocking out names doesn’t mean dick here). Vagueness is clear in the definition, folks: lack of certainty or distinctness or lack of preciseness in thought or communication.
I cannot take something, cropped them out, as example shown below, and claimed it is vague (especially without context).
It is clear of who I am referring too. No amount of "well, I DIDN'T say any names..." doesn't cut it.
Furthermore, once the shit already hit the fan, you cannot dial it back up. I understand the notation of “words hurt”. No shit, but if the person is completely and utterly unaware that their words hurt another person… and you don’t let them know, how on earth are they supposed to know that? No one are mind readers and we’re in the realm of assumptions. Especially odd that the people who use these arguments, are often subjected to that same train of thought. Your words hurt, but they can spread, complain, cropped out images (with blocked out names, but it is obviously who you are referring too but taking their statements out of context) and spread throughout their personal accounts under the guise of “vagueness” to their friends in their words, and they don’t hurt. Even more strange is how they criticized anyone for spreading their tweets to others, despite literally doing the same thing they’re getting angry about under the idea of “well, this doesn’t involve them”, yet, spreading on social media (which some of those people that followed said accounts) isn’t much as involvement in the first place?
These things lead to distrust (and compromised friendship) because of this little charade due to lack of communication, but it wasn’t an absolute lost since I gained new ones with great support over it.
Had to get this out because it’s been bugging me for a while, but I feel a hell a lot better now I said what I really want to say lol. Hopefully, that’s the last time I have to talk about this… unless I get stuck into another similar situation. See you in social media in “Cancel ShineCero” folks :wagh:
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Also, it grind my fucking gears when I see artists having the gall to criticizes another artist’s skill level, but put it as “no offense”… fuck off with that shit, bro. :thonk:
